Releasing a TAD bit of frustration...

All this while have been reading stories from sellers / buyers. Sorry SMWDY, if this is not the right place for a reviewer to rant. I just can't 'tahan' where some of these people is being so ignorant and rude!

So i have 2 review blogs, one for PRELOVED and one for ONLINE BLOGSHOPS (selling brand new apparels). I created 2 review sites so that it looks more tidy and is easier for me to differenciate the blogshops. I have wrote in BOLD at the T & C that the ONLINE BLOGSHOP REVIEW SITE is just for blogshops that sells brand new ready stock apparel and YET, there is sellers that's so ignorant for not reading it and sending me like 5-6 times of the linking form telling me to link her up. I even created two emails for each of the review site to make it easier for me to browse thru the linking forms. Come on people, we, reviewers are doing this for FOC. Perhaps u guys can read the T & C before sending me the linking form?

And as for the reviews, sigh.. Do understand that i'm not like 24hrs x 7 days in front of the computer, stick to my review site and immediately do a review whenever there is a site updated! I usualli review according to my time and the things which im attracted to. Please do not ORDER us to do review on how many of the items or why we don't do review on ur site... is probably i've missed it out... or there's nothing that catches my eye (sorry to say so, but to be honest, its not like there is always SOMETHING that i WILL like from the blog, isnt it?) I guess reviews is a very personal thing... if i do what you say...and simply review on all items... then it will not be MY REVIEW blog... must well make it a public platform for all of you guys to do reviews yourself...

And for those who pay for the ad service, yes i know, because u're paying us... we gotta make sure we have reviews almost everyday... and probably pay more attention to your updatez... but dear, if i have missed out ur updatez, maybe u can send me an email to notify me... instead of being so harsh telling me "HEY. I'M PAYING YOU AD FEES! Y DIDNT REVIEW MY BLOG?!" Thats a bit rude dun u thk so? Please people... yes, we reviewer probably didnt buy from u guys before but we deserve a bit of respect alright...

But there is always some sellers which is really sweet and appreciative! At least i know what i do is worth it and is BEING APPRECIATE!

Wah Lau Eh

A seller emails me her blogs url and tells me to review her and link her up. I have a dozens of emails to reply and and only reply a few days later letting her know that i will and her next email to me :

"What's your blog?"

Now is that a slap in the face or what?

Doing my part

Hi, babes :)
Xash here from Diary Addictions. Due to the recent number of scams which has been highlighted, would greatly appreciate if the authors/readers of SMYDY would personally email me [bittersweet.symphony01@hotmail.com] the details of these 'suspicious' blogshops to me.

Action to be taken on my part:
1) Will take note of these blogshops and will NOT review the blogshop UNLESS clarification is given.
2) If you think that's too harsh, will put a tiny note in the review that the blogshop has unsettled comments as highlighted in SMYDY. :)

And if I have the time:
1) Will personally e-mail these blogshops regarding the complaints to clear up matters.
- If the blogshop owners DO reply, will update SMYDY.
- If they continue to be MIA, I *might* create a blogger roll for these blacklisted blog shops. But do note that these are only for SERIOUS cases of scamming money--does not include customer service, loose change, etc. This step may be too controversial though, so feedback much appreciated!

Thank you. :)
Love always, Xash.