You pay? Yes, you PAY!

I'm a seller and this one time a seller emailed me, wanting to swap links. She asked me to put up her banner and since she attached her banner link and url, i did so. I replied and told her that her shops banner is up and gave her mine to put up at hers. She then told me to put up my banner at her blog i had to pay a certain amount of money for a certain period.

Since she was selling something not of my interest, i didnt visit her blog at first. But after her replied i checked and sure enough there were various prices for differently placed banner space and different durations. Of course i didnt want to pay her, as she's not even a reviewer and her blog is considerably new (or not famous since i only know about it after her email). Meaning, why spend money when traffic is not guaranteed right? So i told her i didnt want to pay but she keep pestering me by emailing me a few times a day about it.

So i removed her banner and a day later she emailed me scolding me for removing her banner and said that "dont blame me for the way i run my blog. u want adveritising space, u pay. just cos ur blog is not like that u dont have the rights to remove my banner as u like".

I mean, she's the one wanting to exchange links first and even have the cheek to charge people for it. Then keep forcing me to pay up and when i remove her banner she gets all angry at me. Ok, so maybe its my fault i didnt inform her i was going to remove her banner. But at first i didnt even mind having her banner at my blog although she's not gonna link me. But after emailing me asking for payment so many times, it gets really annoying.

Ergh! I'm not the type that pays reviewers for ad space but i dont mind paying them since at least can help with traffic. But paying another seller who demands it is ridiculous, especially since she charges quite high.